The winds on Mars are much faster than typically on Earth, however, the atmosphere is much thinner. This can cause some unusual effects, somewhat analogous to high speed/ low torque vs low speed/ high torque.
Let's assume the satellite dish had a surface area of $1 m^2$, a reasonable assumption. Also, let's use the math from this question, and let's use the Martian listed wind, of 175 kph. That's 48.61 m/s, which is a high wind speed. That creates a pressure of
${q_M}$ ${=}$ ${0.5(0.02)(48.61)^2}$ ${=}$ ${23.62}$ ${Pa}$
For our $1 m^2$ antenna, that exerts a force of 23.6N, or about the force of gravity with a 2.5 kg weight on it. That would probably be enough to bend the dish, if build on Earth. However, there are other things to keep in mind.
- This dish would be built to survive on Mars, and thus would likely be lighter than an analogous Earth antenna. This would make it break more easily.
- Anything on Mars will have to survive thermal cycles, making it more brittle.
- Once something is torn, it will tend to move up to the actual wind speed. This could cause damage for anything that actually gets loose.
- The pressure on Mars effectively goes up in a dust storm, as there is more mass in the air, likely causing the pressure to be higher.
- The abrasive nature of dust likely reduced the strength of the antenna over time, in particular during the very storm mentioned in the book/movie.
- The Hermes 3 landing site is one of the lower portions of Mars. In fact, most of the landing sites for landers are in the lower regions (Parachutes work better there). Thus, there is likely higher atmospheric pressure than there would be at other locations, increasing the effect of the wind even more. According to Wikipedia, the highest pressure on Mars is about twice that of the mean.
Taking all of the above into account, it could be possible to have at least a 4 times higher effective pressure, which makes the story a bit more believable. Still, I think this is one of the less scientifically accurate parts of the book, but it's not completely impossible.