Delta-v determines the amount of propellant needed.
Suppose a craft with mass $m$ and velocity $\mathbf{v}$ burns a small mass $|\Delta m|$ of propellant and ejects it at relative velocity $\mathbf{u}$, so that the craft mass changes by $\Delta m < 0$. This occurs over a time $\Delta t$ in a local gravitational field $\mathbf{g}$. Then the new craft velocity $\mathbf{v} + \Delta\mathbf{v}$ is given by
$$\text{initial momentum} + \text{change in momentum due to gravity} = \text{final momentum of propellant} + \text{final momentum of craft},$$
$$m\mathbf{v} + (\Delta t)m\mathbf{g} = -\Delta m(\mathbf{v} + \mathbf{u}) + (m + \Delta m)(\mathbf{v} + \Delta\mathbf{v}).$$
Given that the increments are small, this simplifies to
$$(\Delta m)\mathbf{u} = m\Delta\mathbf{v} - (\Delta t)m\mathbf{g}.$$
Dividing through by $(\Delta t)m$ and passing to derivatives, we have
$$\frac{\dot m\mathbf{u}}{m} = \dot{\mathbf{v}} - \mathbf{g}.$$
Taking magnitudes (remembering $\dot m < 0$) and integrating over time, we obtain the rocket equation
$$|\mathbf{u}|\ln\frac{m_0}{m} = \int dt\,|\dot{\mathbf{v}} - \mathbf{g}|,$$
where $|\mathbf{u}|$ is constant since it's a characteristic of the propulsion system. The right-hand side is the general definition of delta-v. We see that it is directly linked to the initial craft mass $m_0$, determining the initial amount of propellant needed.
Now, suppose the propellant is utilized in quick burns, during each of which $\mathbf{u}$ is constant in direction and $|\dot{\mathbf{v}}| \gg |\mathbf{g}|$, separated by coasting intervals during which $\dot{\mathbf{v}} = \mathbf{g}$ (i.e., $\dot m = 0$). Then delta-v simplifies to
$$\int dt\,|\dot{\mathbf{v}} - \mathbf{g}| = |\Delta\mathbf{v}_{\text{burn 1}}| + |\Delta\mathbf{v}_{\text{burn 2}}| + \cdots,$$
hence its name. (In this equation $\Delta\mathbf{v}$ is not required to be small.)