Most of this is from memory, watching live streams. Also, some sources contradict each other, so this is my best guess.
- T-0:35:00: RP-1 fuel loading begins on both stages.
- T-0:35:00: Liquid oxygen (LOX) oxidizer loading begins on stage 1.
- T-0:31:00: Liquid oxygen (LOX) oxidizer loading finished on stage 1.
- T-0:16:00: Liquid oxygen (LOX) oxidizer loading begins on stage 2.
- T-0:15:00: Liquid oxygen (LOX) oxidizer top-off begins on stage 1.
- T-0:05:20: RP-1 fuel loading finished on stage 1.
- T-0:02:40: Liquid oxygen (LOX) oxidizer at flight levels on stage 1.
- T-0:02:05: Liquid oxygen (LOX) oxidizer at flight levels on stage 2.
- T-0:01:00: Liquid oxygen (LOX) top-off finishes.
- T-0:00:40: Pressurising tanks for flight.
- T-0:00:20: Tanks at flight pressure.
At some point in between, there is also the point where they stop bubbling cryogenic Helium through the tanks to super chill the propellant.