I am very comfortable with specific impulse in seconds. I know how to calculate it, I know what it is, I know what happens to a rocket when you double in or cut it in half. But it feels like the strangest coincidence that specific impulse in units of velocity is equivalent to exhaust velocity.
Here's what I mean:
If we use the interpretation of specific impulse as the thrust per unit of fuel mass flow, we've got units of
$$\frac{N}{\frac{kg}{s}}$$
Split up our Newtons using Newton's Second Law ($F=ma$)
$$\frac{kg \cdot \frac{m}{s^2}}{\frac{kg}{s}} => \frac{kg \cdot \frac{m}{s}}{kg} => \frac{m}{s}$$
Ok, great, like magic we have meters per second. Why? The math said so. But somehow this is supposed to be the exhaust velocity? The $m$ in $m/s$ came from the thrust of the rocket in the math, not from any property of the exhaust itself. The exhaust $kg$ and $s$ just cancel out some components of thrust.
Is there a good intuition to explain why this is equivalent to exhaust velocity, beyond "because the math says so"?