Shameless plug for Tudat (TU Delft Astrodynamics Toolbox)...
If you're looking for something that allows you a lot of freedom to set up and play with simulations, you might want to consider an open-source C++ project I've been working on for the last few years as part of my PhD. Most of the graduate students in my group use it now, so there's a fair bitlot of man hours that'seffort has gone into it.
Bit of a shameless plug I know ...
The toolbox is called Tudat (TU Delft Astrodynamics Toolbox) and you can get it here.