Not an answer, purely speculative:
but a series of notes i came across that might be of use:
Bad picture of Gas inlet and Gas outlet connectors to the suit, circa Apollo 11.
Lunar Outfitters: Making the Apollo Space Suit (Bill Ayrey, 2020; ISBN: 9780813066578)
(I do not have access to this book but given the details, it may well have the answer within that the OP is looking for)
Connector color code:
LSS ( life support system ) connectors with the inlet being anodized blue and outlet being anodized red).
ILC Space Suits & Related Products, The Path Leading To Space
Gemini:
suit was worn by astronaut Deke Slayton during early training and development testing, prior to the final decision being made by NASA as to which suit would be used during the Gemini missions
Red-right, Left-blue already established here circa 1963. With only two major outlets, Out in Red on the Right, and In in Blue on the Left, which matches the wrist colors at this point. Perhaps this was the point at which it made sense that the L/R match the connectors. As more connectors were added to later suits this may have got lost, with the priority being Upper/Lower (see first graphic) instead of Left/Right, until Apollo 17 suit changes.
Whats interesting is that the Outlet colored Red, has the Wrist colored Red closest to it - under High-G or high pressure situations, it is advantageous to have the connector closest to that sides hand; likewise Blue Inlet has the Blue wrist closest. Perhaps if they had changed the internal design of the pressure suit so that the Blue Inlet was on the Right, and the Red on the left, then this would have fitted better visually. Perhaps the design of the Gemini LSS had the Outlet-to-the-suit connection on the right, and the Inlet on the left, therefore dictating the Inlet-Outlet arrangement on the pressure suit.
During development, the suit or parts of it went through color changes - notably with the use of blue - to red.
A5L 1965 developmental blue pressure suit, for example, was mostly blue, including the anodised helmet ring - and during development this was overlaid with the red ring.
Apollo 11 neck ring suit color variation, perhaps blue is training, red, on right is final.
Another note was that during development some parts - especially the anodised disconnects were cannibalized from one set and used in subsequent variations, carrying through the colors without ever re-evaluating their color code, as they simply already existed and were serving their purpose (ie. the why fix what isn't broken).
by Apollo 17, it looks like there is a R/L color coding re-arrange relating to the major connections - major Outlets in Red, on the Right; with major Inlets in Blue, on the Left, sort of matching the wrist disconnects again:
Link:
International Latex Corporation (ILC) Dover Space Suits & Related Products
https://history.nasa.gov/alsj/ILC-SpaceSuits-RevA.pdf
As said, entirely speculative, but at one point, with only two connectors it may have been a thought to match the wrist colors, visible to the user, with the R/L connectors on the front of the suit, and then subsequently never changed. And in general, blue=in and red=out still stands as a generic color code in of itself.
So...given the above:
Why does NASA suit color coding not follow conventional navigation color coding?
NASA does, but this coloring was not for navigational conventional left/right, port/starboard indication, but rather limited to Blue-In and Red-Out indicators when it was simply two connectors on the front of the suit and you had to make sure it was easy to distinguish, and access, between the two. The wrist disconnects, which once matched each side, were simply left as they were over time. (speculative)